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Is it true that you usually have more S.E.X. beneath the
workplace glass ceilings than above? What’s your experience?
As a male and coach I personally don’t care about the glass
ceilings…I endeavor just to have the best S.E.X. where ever
I can, and with whom ever I encounter. It’s
life-transforming. You should really try is some time -
soon. It’s vital for your happiness, health and success.
Let me explain myself. Synergistic Energy eXchange (S.E.X.)
is the foundation of a sustainable life and workplace.
Energy is the lifeblood of our daily lives. Without it, we
perish – physically, mentally and emotionally, and with it
we thrive. We become more productive, more resilient, more
inspired and more potential can be released. We can achieve
a whole lot more, for longer, under more pressure, when we
are energised and are having Synergistic Energy eXchanges.
In each encounter we have with someone, we are really
exchanging energies. In some interactions people deplete the
other persons’ energy and leaves them totally deflated. We
call theses people Energy Vampires - Just there for
themselves. Nice! There is no intention of a Synergistic
Energy eXchange- it’s all about them and their wants or
needs.
In other interactions we add to the persons’ energy levels,
and leave that person “on top of the world”. We’ve added
significantly to their energetic resources. Very often when
we have this kind of Synergistic Energy eXchange, we
too, are left feeling a whole lot more energised than
before. Suddenly synergy. Suddenly a whole lot more is
possible. We become Alchemists with the ability to turn
“lead into gold” - heavy energy into light.
In this latter encounter there has been a Synergistic Energy
eXchange where both parties have gained, and leave with more
energy than they originally arrived. Magic stuff can happen
here. This creates engagement, inspiration, commitment and
profits.
Synergy is defined as the working
together of two or more things, people, or organizations,
especially when the result is greater than the sum of their
individual effects or capabilities. What benefits
do your staff get from workplace synergy? And please don’t
be so redundant and say …their salary! Wake up! If you are
going to keep your great talent – salary will not do it…
they just may not be financial sluts!
Firstly, to be good at S.E.X,. you need to be aware. Aware
of your intentions...Aware of your internal state…Aware of
your intended outcome…and aware of your impact upon the
others. Without awareness you are completely blind.
Secondly, great S.E.X. comes from your heart and not from
your head. It comes with selfless care, compassion and the
intention to sincerely empower, engage and uplift the other
person, or people, for the benefit of all involved and
impacted.
Thirdly, to have incredible S.E.X. you need your own energy
- Lots of it. Good clean, honest, positive, powerful, loving
energy. Not dark, fearful, selfish energy. Many people are
not aware enough of how their energy is perceived or
experienced in the workplace. Try asking your staff… if you
are brave enough.
Most “greeders” (Greedy Leaders) don’t care how they are
perceived – they only worry about satisfying the “few” to
ensure their own enormous payouts and special privileges.
Do you really feel these kinds of leaders have any heart -
If they do, it’s well hidden, and we all lose out from that
concealment.
So how could you turn your selfish manipulative motivating
workplace into a caring and inspiring WOWplace? How can you,
by becoming more aware of the impact, intention and results
of interactions, have better S.E.X.? Would S.E.X. enhance
your workplace and productivity. Most coaches use S.E.X. to
get more from their clients each day.
In most companies we have a large group of people, working
like slaves, to make a much smaller group of people, the
few, wealthy. In essence that’s the basic model of a typical
business today – many working for the few. And in many
cases, the many are struggling on the verge of personal
insolvency; they are typically 2 -3 months (of no salary)
away from financial disaster.
Yet they are exhorted to slave on to ensure financial
success of “the company”, which is really just a piece of
paper, representing the few, anyway. Imagine, if instead of
managing (manipulating) a common workplace we were truly
humane enough to care enough about our “staff” and to turn
it into a WOWplace.
What’s a WOWplace? Glad you asked. A WOW place is a company
where people converge with passion, commitment,
collaboration, engagement, love and celebration to WOW.
WOW is Working on WEALTH –
for us ALL. Imagine that… a place where everybody’s future
"wealth" (health, wealh & happiness) is considered as part
of the ongoing focus and intention of the company. Imagine
building wealth for the many, not just the few!
Imagine what kinds of S.E.X. we would have then! Do you
think that engagement levels would be different? Do you
think people would view what they do in a different manner?
Would they be more or less inspired? What would happen to
stress levels, energy levels, creativity and passion levels?
We could begin to use 4 letter words in the workplace… like
help, care and love. Me could become WE. And slowly, but
surely, we could begin to turn an old style workplace into a
new style, truly caring, WOWplace.
Maybe I’m just a dreamer in believing we could truly open
our hearts to care enough about those around us to do
something like this. To turn their survival into thrival. It
would take lots of vision, education, coaching and care, but
we could achieve it. We could if we cared enough! Maybe
that’s it… we don’t care ENOUGH.
The way I see it right now is, very few people are having
great S.E.X. at work or at home. Some people we’ve all
worked with, are retired and starving for love, food,
warmth, care and significance. Some people are still
working! - and starving for any love, decent food, any
warmth, a little care and some significance. What a life we
create and perpetuate.
Remember, with the way our life expectancy has shifted, from
typically 65-70 years, to now anything from 85-95, survival
is going become a big challenge for many people. Why not
work together to begin to build a WOW place that supports
everyone? Are we unconscious of the challenges facing most
people? Are we that uncaring to turn away from them when we
very easily could begin to support, guide and assist them in
many ways.
I believe we are unconscious in many ways. Maybe we need to
wake up and become conscious consumers? - Conscious of the
quality of life of our staff. Conscious of the energetic
exchanges we create, perpetrate and participate in each
moment. Conscious of how truly fortunate we are to live in
the top 10%-15% of “quality of life” on the planet.
Conscious of how simple it could be for us to make big
impacts on other people’s lives in a sustainable way.
Maybe we could become truly conscious pro-sumers. Imagine if
when we purchased products and services, we specifically
supported organisations that engendered WOWplaces. Where we
knew that that company’s people were empowered and carried
forward with S.E.X. and a WOWplace foundation.
If we were proactive enough to send messages to
“slave-driver” mentality company leaders that its time to
bring our hearts out from behind the steel armour of the
past, for who knows how long, military style leadership.
It’s time for us to step up and show who we really are.
Spiritual beings having a human experience.
Are we selfish, shameful, hoarding, mean, chunks of wobbling
flesh driven by fear, greed and avarice, or are we truly an
extension of the most powerful force in the universe –
inspired by love, caring, compassion and our
inter-connectedness. You’ll reveal who you believe you are
by the way you show up. I see you…
The fact is we are all interconnected. We are all
interdependent. And if you have one ounce of compassion and
love, you’ll begin to have more S.E.X. at work and at home.
And if you are truly a visionary, inspired and inspiring,
begin to turn your workplace into a WOWplace. Begin to
become more aware. Step up to a new way of business and
life.
Who knows what could happen next? One thing is for
sure…You’ll laugh, live and love, and be loved a whole lot
more. After all, when you’re lying on your death bed, would
you want more money or more love? Your heart knows the
answer. And Alchemy is the way. Risk it – be a courageous
leader – lead from your heart a little more.
Become a WOW Alchemist in your office. Show us your love and
share it, because Love and S.E.X. are like manure… It’s no
good unless you spread it all around! So lets all have some
fun spreading it around. I dare you!
Namaste’
Tony Dovale
SA’s #1 Energy Coach & Alchemist
Cell 083-447-6300
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