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The
ability to discover and release what is holding you back with
some-one who really cares - Your Life Coach.
Your best Life Coach
is unbiased, passionate, determined and unrelenting in getting
you towards your desired results.
A really good Life coach gets you to your goals... quicker... almost no
matter what gets in the way along the way.
Life coaching for me is the highest value of
service I can deliver to another Soul. It's about holding
another Soul accountable to do what they claim they wish to
achieve. It's about holding that Soul to
remain clear, focused, passionate, active and resilient until
they achieve their desired outcome.
A good life coach get you to live your truth, in spite of your
limitations. A life coach does not "fix" you, they get you to
the top of the mountain with who are are already!
WHAT
can you achieve personally with a Life Coach
TO
FEEL BETTER (Mentally, Physically & Emotionally)
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Habit evaluation: exercise, lifestyle, thinking, eating,
reacting
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clarify personal needs & fulfill them
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create free time - enjoy with self and special people
INCREASE
YOUR QUALITY OF FEELING & LIFE
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establish a balance between home, work and play
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strengthen professional network and personal community
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eliminate toxic stress but have a healthy level of worry
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increase personal standards
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RELATIONSHIPS
- DEEPER & CLOSER
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Enhance Trust & intimacy
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Attract quality people
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Accept & enjoy people more freely
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Clearly know what you need from people
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COMMUNICATE
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say everything you need to say and do in the moment
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ask more for what you want
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motivate others more effectively
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Simplify
- DO MORE IN LESS TIME
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focus on what you most want to have
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simplify your life, responsibilities and projects
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design a system to increase proficiency
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MAKE
MORE MONEY AND KEEP IT
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Increase income
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spend less time working
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get control over spending and lifestyle habits
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handle debt and financial problems
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start saving and investing 10-25% of your income
DEVELOP
A LIFE MISSION & PLAN
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discover your personal mission, purpose and vision
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develop your spiritual side/connection
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re-orient your life around your values
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extend your boundaries
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BUSINESS CLIENTS
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develop a full, successful practice
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develop a strong reputation as a leader in your profession
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manage clients better
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increase sales and profitability
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recognize and eliminate high overhead costs
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generate new energy and creativity for yourself and your staff
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find your own path to authenticity and leadership
CREATE
A SUCCESSFUL SMALL BUSINESS
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start a new business
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increase profitability and sales from 20-100%
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develop a strategic action plan and implement it
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establish a 5-20 year vision, mission and strategy
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create a high energy Marketing and advertising plan
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strengthen internal management systems
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mediate business and employee conflicts-avoid litigation
A PERSONAL LIFE COACH IS...
Someone Who Will...
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Give you direction when you
seem stuck
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Provide a different
viewpoint than you yourself have
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See the value in you that
you don't see
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Empower you to reach for
what you don't think you can have and to be who you don't
think you can become
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Be a source of connection to
who or what you need
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See what lies in the shadow
of your ego
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Have the courage to tell you
what that is
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Be more honest to you than
any friend you've ever had
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Accept you for exactly who
you are--always
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Be an example in his/her own
personal growth
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Want more for you than you
want for yourself
WHAT A LIFE COACH ISN'T
A
Life Coach Is Not Someone Who Will:
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Do your life for you
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Require anything of you that
you are not willing to do for yourself
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Provide deep therapy or
Trauma deconstruction
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Fix you-
for you are not broken
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Break a confidence
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Coach you when you are
unwilling to be coached
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Judge you as being wrong,
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Keep you as a client when
you are not progressing
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Be dishonest with you or of
disservice to you
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Buy your "act"-your excuse
for not living life fully and not delivering on your promise
You Will Get The Most From Your Coaching When You:
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Let go of what your coach
will think and just say your truth
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Are open to your coaches
suggestions that you are most resistant about
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Resistance always points
toward change. Isn't "change" what you are about here?
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Know that your reasoning for
your resistance, is rarely your truth
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Decide before you start your
"contract time" just how long you will allow yourself to be in
resistance or fear, before moving through it
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Remember: Resistance = Pain
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Make your contract time
short. Suggestion: less than two minutes.
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Be aware, fear points to
where there is the most potential for change.
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Remember: Fear's useful
purpose is to point out potential physical dangers
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Remember: with no danger,
Fear=resistance multiplied by imagination
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Remember: Your coach is not
there to beat you up or make you wrong
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Remember: Your resentment
always points to an element of truth
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Remember: Life just
happens--you choose your own meanings to it
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Remember: it is not about
what is right or wrong, only about the truth
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Remember: A coach must see
and say the truth to be effective
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Remember: Nothing is worth
doing except that it leads to experiencing the joys and growth
of your soul.
You
may be surprised at the direction
coaching will take your LIFE!
Fiery Tiger - Tony Dovale
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REAL Team Building Company Activities
Cell 083-447-6300
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